Shillzz Posted January 16, 2012 Share Posted January 16, 2012 Thanks for that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dante_Lockhart Posted January 17, 2012 Author Share Posted January 17, 2012 The girl I was seeing who told me she didn't wanna lead me on because she didn't want anything serious? Yeah, she's in a relationship now. Raging much? Mostly at myself, but still.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mjmooney Posted January 17, 2012 VT Supporter Share Posted January 17, 2012 It wasn't meant to be - in the grand scheme of things, this happens to everybody, many times. Not worth wasting emotional energy dwelling on it. EDIT: Put it another way: sometimes Person A likes Person B, but Person B doesn't like Person A. Doesn't mean there is ANYTHING "wrong" with Person A, it's just one of those things, and you move on. When I was young I wasted a lot of time stressing about whether or not I was attractive to women. I developed pointless infatuations with girls who weren't interested, and then beat myself up about it. When I met my missus, we had a conversation about what "types" we liked, and she said something that seemed to me totally profound and eye-opening (but with hindsight should have been utterly bleeding obvious). She said: "I like people who like me. Anything else would just be a waste of time". Bingo. Relax, tomorrow's another day. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GarethRDR Posted January 17, 2012 Share Posted January 17, 2012 At least it's confirmation she was no good for you. Crazy bi-ach. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dante_Lockhart Posted January 17, 2012 Author Share Posted January 17, 2012 I know, I know. I really do. That's why I'm angry at myself about it. She was never going to be good for me, we were total opposites (maturity wise, habits, hobbies, personality - and opposites may attract but this was really opposite). It was just the fact she showed an interest in me, and that doesn't happen very often so I felt the need to try and hold on to it. So yeah, anger at self for being a clingy mess and not bucking up. Buuut, I'm going to the gym in an hour so I'll work out my issues there Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GarethRDR Posted January 17, 2012 Share Posted January 17, 2012 You do your wanking at the gym? Ewwwww. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dante_Lockhart Posted January 17, 2012 Author Share Posted January 17, 2012 Sure. If you're there and close your eyes it sounds like a porno. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CI Posted January 17, 2012 Share Posted January 17, 2012 Stay off PoF and you'll probably feel much better and remember, the Qatari's are coming Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GarethRDR Posted January 17, 2012 Share Posted January 17, 2012 Sure. If you're there and close your eyes it sounds like a porno. :shock: That... is a brilliant point. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ingram85 Posted January 17, 2012 Share Posted January 17, 2012 Dante, steer clear of the dating sites as they will just piss you off at the moment. Glad you sorted some help out mate! Hope your back to your normal alphabetti spaghetti cooking, no fear hat wearing ways in no time! ...and girls are weird creatures so dont worry about it, its why im sticking to women I know already! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dante_Lockhart Posted January 17, 2012 Author Share Posted January 17, 2012 I'm actually talking to a girl on eHarmony at the moment so I'll probably meet her and see how that goes. At least if they're paying for the site I know they're not messing about! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lapal_fan Posted January 17, 2012 Share Posted January 17, 2012 I cannot fathom for the life of me why a twenty-something year old would even contemplate joing a dating site? You're in the prime of your life, with friends, who should be out and about - not meeting people on websites.. Have some pride man! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dante_Lockhart Posted January 17, 2012 Author Share Posted January 17, 2012 All my fiends are in long term relationships mate and I have no confidence to talk to girls I don't know when out and about. Plus I've exhausted all of my 'friends of friend' options :-) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CI Posted January 18, 2012 Share Posted January 18, 2012 You could always try "Garden of Eden" in Hay Mills Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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