Totally agree with Trent.
My dislike for Spurs is all about my experience of their fans. They seem to feel the need to tell everyone why Spurs are so amazing, how they have more fans than anybody else, why they're really the biggest club in the country, much bigger than Villa blah blah blah and they cannot hear a single criticism of the club. To be fair, it's mainly what I've seen on here as I've only met two Spurs fans in person (that I can recall). But they both fit the profile. One of them was constantly chucking all sorts of Spurs-related facts and figures at me that I didn't ask for, encourage or give a shit about. He even gave me a list of reasons why Spurs were a bigger club than Villa (not an argument I'd asked for). The other was my former housemate's boyfriend, who was just a complete tit. He reckoned that Assou-Ekkoto (sp?) was the best left-back in the world. Seriously. And that a PL XI would have "at least" 5 Spurs players in it. Apparently Real Madrid was also not much of a step up for Modric... These weren't stupid guys either - both university educated, in good jobs etc.
I'm genuinely curious about where it comes from. Perhaps it's some deep-rooted insecurity about Arsenal's superiority. I think it's quite telling that such a disproportionate amount of them feel the need, and have the motivation, to come on here to tell us how awesome they are. I don't recall any fans of other clubs doing the same.
I agree that every club has its fair share of 'special' fans but I think, on the whole, we're a pretty self-effacing and realistic bunch on here.
It's pretty pathetic of me to care tbh, but I would rather Chelsea get a player over Spurs. I share the dislike for Chelsea but they will loaded for as long as Roman sticks around and will buy as many players as it takes for them to succeed. There's nothing we can do about it. If Spurs continue to crack on and get top 4 again, then it widens their financial advantage and makes it harder for us to catch them.