Split with the girlfriend of 12 years just before Christmas, she said things had changed for her! I'd put it down to her new job and work xollegues although I was and am sure she wasn't screwing anyone else. I tried to put us back together but she said no so I bought myself a new house and had the kids as much as posible with the lingering hope we'd be able to reconcile!. We've always been on speaking terms and I've always made the effort to help as much as I can financially etc. The last few months she seemed to be warming to me and I really thought when she gets back from holiday with the kids we'd be getting back together!. I ran into a mutual friend last week who proceeded to inform me me that she's been shagging a bloke from her work the last few months!!! The friend knows cos she told her! I've been there for the ex all the time through problems she's had this year including her father dying! I've asked her and Shea denied it but everything I've suspected but tried to ignore adds up and I'm 110% convinced. Funnily enough I'd still take her back if she was honest-what does that say?