I'm talking on a personal level here, were all different of course. But just say I was single and I was out one night and I ended up going back to some girls house with her mates, one thing led to another and I ended up banging this girl and her two mates. I would quite happily do that even if they were ugly women, obviously I would have to be single. Now when I'm in my late 40s my daughter will be late teens, even at that age if I was single I'd quite happily have three women in one go...BUT if I'd found out that my daughter had three blokes one night I'd go mad. The point I'm trying to get across is that if anyone is like me and would quite happily do those kind of things then surely you can't have ago at your daughter for doing the same. Its perfectly legal but there are risks involved. take my lad for instance,god forbid if I'm still doing coke in my 40s he will know by then what it is and that I'm doing it. If he starts doing it,and was influenced because I was doing it then its my fault and I have to live with that,yes its illegal and having sex at the right age is legal. But how can I go mad at him? All I can do is try and make him see sense and give him my advice. It does worry me that will happen but I really hope I ay doing that shit by then, I respect people who say they would not degrade their self by acting like that at that age but like I said I'm just talking on a personal level. Maybe I would not do those things at that age,but in reality there is not a lot wrong with that aslong as your single.