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Such a geeky name

Lol, actually yep

Not entirely sure I'd call it a date, but yep. Hope she doesn't pull out* (ahem, pun not intended) *Edit: Hope she doesn't end up bringing someone else along either! God forbid...

She replied "I'm okay with it most prolly " That was her response, letter-for-letter. Prolly! Bloody kids these days. You got a smilie face so don't worry about it. It's the accent. We tend to drop consonants.

She replied "I'm okay with it most prolly " That was her response, letter-for-letter.

Should I worry about the word "probably"?

She'll probably be free (at the time I specified)

She just replied, what the f

I don't know, I'm not "I-want-to-jump-your-bones-right-now" into her, I'm merely at the "you're interesting, let's get to know each other" stage. And I want my actions to reflect that. Calling her might make me seem like I'm taking things too fast - I'm trying to maintain a vibe that's not too romantic at this stage. Also, calling her and finding out that I've just interrupted her while she was in the middle of doing something isn't something I want. I think you should just text her that Well, this was what I texted her (when she asked me why I had asked her if she was free)

I don't know, I'm not "I-want-to-jump-your-bones-right-now" into her, I'm merely at the "you're interesting, let's get to know each other" stage. And I want my actions to reflect that. Calling her might make me seem like I'm taking things too fast - I'm trying to maintain a vibe that's not too romantic at this stage. Also, calling her and finding out that I've just interrupted her while she was in the middle of doing something isn't something I want.

Cos I just got to know her, and calling her would imply a sense of closeness we do not yet share

Yeah, I admit it makes me look stupid....to you. She doesn't know I'm asking you guys for help, obviously, so me coming here begging all ya to give me advice and spiritual support has no bearing on her opinion of me. Anyway, if she doesn't reply within the next few days I'll send her another text closer to the date to confirm that she won't come. If she doesn't respond again, then I **** off, obviously. I have friends, whom I trust completely, who take forever to respond, and sometimes they forget to respond, period, and I think she might be similar in that respect. Also, don't think she's a "glued-to-my-phone-all-the-time" person at all - take that with a pinch of salt, obviously, given that I have only just gotten to know her.

I mean, if she replies after the two-day period you suggested I set - her late response might be because she had reasons I shouldn't worry about (just like it was in the case of my friend)

Come to think of it, a few days ago, one of my best friends replied to me FIVE ****ING DAYS after he had seen the initial message. I replied promptly, of course.

I didn't, she was the one who asked me why I had asked her if she was free. She hasn't agreed yet, that's why I'm in a state of limbo. This morning, I suggested a time to meet up, and she hasn't replied since (it's 11 plus at night now)

Cos it's hard.

Good lord, you should be ashamed for listening to that

That's the whole point of arranging a time to meet.......

Laugh it up.....you've all been 16 before (mentally), you've been in the same situation before many times and you know it.

I seriously cannot tell if you're joking or being serious.

I actually turn 22 in Oct, but im very inexperienced when it comes to the opposite sex (partially because I went to a single sex school). Havent I mentioned my age on here before? Ive been on VT a long time you know. Edit: I'm experienced enough to know that the best course of action is certainly NOT to keep sending texts, so.

Okay, mentioned this in passing on the "things that piss you off" thread, but here goes. Met this girl by chance, really good conversation, hit it off, etc etc, she asked me for my number. Texted her two days after that (i.e. yesterday), asking about something about her that I was curious about. She took a while to reply, two texts (that didn't feel as great as our face-to-face conversation did) later I decided to, uh, show that I was doing something by waiting for an hour before responding. Anyway, long story short, the conversation could have been better, but eventually I asked her if she was free this weekend. "Not this weekend, but I'm probably free the next" she replied. "Why?" I told her that since we don't share classes, I'd like to keep in contact with her, and I told her that I'd like to grab a bite with her or something, maybe show her around the place (she's new to the city). Took her 2 hours I think, maybe more? before she replied, but basically she said that she'll be free next weekend. Now, because I'd been waiting for hours for her reply (and gotten a bit sick of it), I decided to play some games by putting off my reply until the following morning, i.e. today. It was already almost 10 by then anyway. No reply from her since then, none at all, and it's been the entire freaking day. Any advice? No corny jokes please, the last time I asked for advice on this thread... Edit: Actually, more concerned about what's going on in her bloody mind than really needing advice on what to do!

Duuuh, lol Still does my head in though

Jesus Christ, girls who don't respond at alllllll.

That's the first time I've ever seen "bok choy" spelt as "pak choi"