Thanks Laura, Anthony and Stew (aka legend!). If im honest, of course i do it to win and build a good program, but there is someting more meaningfull to my work. I geniunely care for my players, now dont get me wrong I am as demanding as they come as a coach. I set high standards and hold my players to it, but I call a spade a spade, not a big spoon. When they do well i tell them, when they dont, i tell them!
They know that there is a time they have to perform, but also they know i will help them with anything, Ive bought clothese, cleats and meals for kids. Ive picked them up and driven them to school, if they are in trouble they know I will help them. I kind of feel like these young men will be the future of our soceity, so in a way, its the least I can do is help.
Now im not perfect, and dont pretend to be, but i encourage them to learn from my mistakes and take the advice of people that have been there and done it. I think in a way this none preachy way of approaching it with them helps. One of my favorite sayings is "Everybody makes mistakes, just make sure you learn from it and dont make the same mistake again." Kind of rambling here, but when Alex told me he wanted to be a PE teacher as he wanted to be like me, and Enzo (his brother) said he wanted to be a coach to help kids like I helped him, and Dennis Moore, a Liberian orphan, whose story is told on this page, tells me he wouldnt be where he is today if it wasnt for me. This sort of stuff is nice to validate that you make a difference in a positive way!
Choffer, we actually went to hooters for a team dinner last tuesday. Its kind of a tradition after first round playoff game. We do fine sessions during the year, and collect a bunch of money and take them out to eat with it, great craic and just another little thing that I hope makes a big difference tomorrow night!
apologies for poor grammar!