In this case, not really. Not least, because your criticisms are all pretty well accepted.
I'd bet there's nobody who went to London on Saturday and thought that if they achieved their aim then the whole thing was sorted out forever and people could just return to their happy little pre-June 2016 bubbles.
If a second referendum does happen (and I'm still pretty sure that it won't), then that's square one on the Snakes & Ladders board, not square one hundred. All the problems that you describe are definitely there (and a few others besides), but they are problems to face rather than reasons for people not to try.