Gotta go with the first one cos it was such a scrappy, chaotic build-up with everyone nervously following the ball all over the place and then Young's all like nah listen this is how it's gonna be and plants this previously awkward-bouncing really bad person straight in the corner like it ain't really no thing, sheer human technical ability imposing its will on the situation and sticking a finger up at the capricious whim of physics, all metaphorical like for Villa finally rolling the sleeves up and being like no more 'anything can happen in derbies' shit we're running things now, Peter Enckelman finally receding into the distance forever with a single tear in his eye, all saying like it's OK it's OK you have to let me go
Props to Carew's tap-in for being the most sarcastic goal I've ever seen, but the rest of em felt a bit hollow by comparison, bit like pulling the wings off a fly.