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Le Tissier did suffer a total lack of ambition. I am actually pretty glad he did suffer it. Southampton built their team around him therefore he could showcase his talent to the maximum. Brilliant player. If he had gone to a bigger club that would not have happened. The sacrifice is he never won anything. But he is Xavi's boyhood idol.

The players Lambert has actually signed would indicate the opposite.

Offered to help her go through her forms with her. But she doesn't want me to. Her family are a nightmare. I have been taking the little one out for walks while she cracks on with study and stuff. Not sure what more I can do? I love helping her with that but I just thing we need to go out as just us a bit more.

and the fact she turned lesbian :winkold: I understand it has been a tough road with this lady but it seems like the current 'setback' is due to her trying to get a career off the ground and do something for herself. I'd give it a bit more time but of course, let her know how you feel. Thats why I said "one of the things" :winkold: yup the other was her hunger for clunge!!! The nursing thing has been blown out of proportions. It is one of the things, but by no means the only thing. As I said there are many spinning plates!

I know you weren't pal. It was good advice. Your advice is the reason I feel a bit of a dick having a go at her about it. I would love the relationship to be long term as she is amazing but I cannot build it on the foundations of hardly seeing her and just sitting in her flat all the time when I do.

You think this is the first sign of trouble? We have had death threats, racist abuse with her kid, her marital home being repossessed, her ex track her down, her mum being rushed into hospital etc....not even close. I am not looking or wanting to get out. But I need some quality time with her. It was one of the things that failed in my marriage the fact that me and my wife never did anything together and I will not repeat that mistake twice.

I got into this relationship fully understanding that her son would be No.1 and her retraining is one of the things I feel most proud about. I feel strongly about her and she is amazing it is just I hate hardly seeing her. In the last 7 days I have seen her last Saturday evening for the night about 3 hours then the next morning for a couple of hours before she went on placement. Just frustrated. But she is special.

The problem isn't the nursing alone. It is the other issues and time pressures like her son, going through bankruptcy, Divorce, her family etc etc. Her son is the main one as she has a complex about not being there for him eg single parent and DV victim. He still comes through to her bed at night which is hugely annoying. However, because the other time pressure are so sensitive I feel like a Grade A clearing in the woods for not being more understanding. But it feels a bit like I have a text/housesit relationship with her at the moment.

I will do. Last night was the first hit at it and I did it while I was pissed off that she wouldn't come to Manchester with me on Saturday. So it wasn't handled great. Shouldn't have done it while angry. Although to be fair she understood my issues but just got upset with herself. But had no real plan to change it.

3 years. She has just over 2 left.

Right back to serious relationship advice needed......... Girl I am currently seeing I have been with her for about 9 or 10 months. She has a lot of stuff going on at the moment. She is studying to be a nurse, currently on 8 week placement, going through bankruptcy and she has a 3 year old child. For the last month or so she is juggling so many plates that I seem to be the one to get dropped all the time. Weekends, if she is not working on placement, consist of me going round to hers and staying in and having the day with her and her son. It is great but it is just getting a bit dull. Date nights have stopped and time which we spend alone together out of the house has nearly dried up. I understand that this is because she feels guilty about being on placement all week then doing paperwork and study and not getting as much time as possible with her son. I feel like a bastard as there are things I want to do with her eg go away for the night, or go into Manchester early evening round the shops, have a meal then go to a few bars etc. Therefore I get pissed off when she says she can't. We usually see each other twice a week then all weekend. However because she has been on mainly lates eg not getting back til 9:30/10pm I have hardly seen her. Also she was working last weekend. Therefore when I do see her I want quality time with just me and her and not sitting in her flat. I know I sound like a selfish clearing in the woods, and her kid is great, but I just want some adult time too. I have told her this and it upsets her because she feels I am blaming her. I am proud that she is changing her life re job, domestic violence victim in the past etc but what is the point if I never get alone time with her??? What do i do?

Angel probably put us off going back into that market. Oi! explain yourself - and it best not be a pop at the Juan and only! The complexities of that deal due to 3rd party ownership was huge. I seem to remember we did the transaction through the FA so nothing could come back on us. A return of 44 goals in 173 games 1 goal ever 4 games) is not good for a £9.5m striker now and certainly not bought 10 years ago. I wonder if he wasn't South American if he would be so revered.

*squirts* Gareth? Haha. Does look similar.

The one on the left would get it!

We've been over this before Ad, not interested. :!: I've shaved down there now!!!

Anyone for a 30 year old virgin?

Watch the documentary about Pendleton! She is an emotional wreck. She is more likely the type of girl who only does missionary and instead of going for Round 2 likes to roll round and have a cuddle. Ennis looks keen to try new things. She is a heptathlete after all! :winkold:

After watching that documentary the other week, Pendleton seems like the type who would cry after sex. But hey maybe i'm doing it wrong!

A poster on a Sunderland forum actually. Nothing to do with Twitter initially. Oh that's ok then, we're defiantly in for him. Who knows if we are or not. What I will say is both Abraham and Kendrick have written articles in the last couple of weeks saying we are at the very least interested in him.

A poster on a Sunderland forum actually. Nothing to do with Twitter initially.

The main problem is I cannot believe for the life of me that Fletcher is worth £13m. Then I try and rack my brains to think of a good alternative that would be realistic. I cannot. It is slim pickings out there for teams to buy strikers. Although he still is not worth anywhere near £13m!

I am relaxed. Even if we do bid for him and it get accepted, I would have thought he would want to leave Wolves on good terms and not leave for a local rival. And more relevant, I would expect MON to give him a stupid wage where we wouldn't.

Sorry but that is horse shit. I have never touched drugs, out of personal choice. I am against them but I am not media led. I have read (not in newspapers etc) about the effects and risks both physical and social. I also have seen the effects on friends who choose to take them. 2 especially who were affected very badly. Drugs are a personal choice. But to say the people who are against them are just media led is silly.

Screams Fulham to me.

Source? Can't see us buying another Right back.