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I am off down to London with the girlfriend this weekend.

Got tickets to Phantom Of The Opera for Saturday night then taking her to http://www.bigeasy.co.uk/v1/index.aspx for dinner.

Job done!

Why the big easy out of curiosity? I know it well and i like it but i dont think its anywhere special.

She likes American food. I have done Bodeans in Soho before and fancied a change.

Do you know any other good ones?

Fair enough, I am a big Bodeans fan, go to the one at Tower hill for the odd lunch and then theres also one where i live on clapham.

I wouldnt know many other American style restaurants as Bodeans and their chicken wings always satisfy.

I wouldnt say Big Easy is bad, just thought it was an odd choice but if your looking for a good surf and turf you cant go to wrong. Word of warning: You could see the cast from the only way is chelsea. Its full of their ilk.

Im loving "Hache" and the moment which is an upmarket burger place. Theres one near me in Clapham but there is also one on the fulham road near the big easy

Sophies Steak house is also in the area and do some mean steaks but also pretty expensive.

To be fair, im sure the girlfriend will love The Big Easy, its fun in there.

I am off down to London with the girlfriend this weekend.

Got tickets to Phantom Of The Opera for Saturday night then taking her to http://www.bigeasy.co.uk/v1/index.aspx for dinner.

Job done!

Why the big easy out of curiosity? I know it well and i like it but i dont think its anywhere special.

The Captain of any club should just be the best leader of the team. The players dont have to like him, the fans and media dont have to like him, He just should be the best person for the job. Its a shame all this stuff gets in the way of National team captains as it only makes the team worse

Just had a chat with my girlfriend.

She wants to spice things up a bit. She wants me to go round to hers tomorrow night, screw her brains out then leave without saying a word.

Apparantly she says she is quite submissive. She says I must not speak though.

Seems odd to me. Anyone done anything similar?

UPDATE: Did this last night even though I was knackered after going straight there after playing squash.

Apparantly there is "room for improvement in my performance" and I need to be a lot "meaner".

Not sure what I can do short of covering her in honey and tying her up outside a bee hive!!!

Shes a keeper!

iv dated and then created a few girls like this. god they are alot of fun.

All bar up the wrong'un. I am not joking I was a sweaty mess when I got to hers after playing squash.

I thought sex was a trade off. eg Shoes+Cash = Agreement from woman to have sex.

I never computed that they might actually like it!!!

Mind blowing!

watch out, because not only does she like it, she will probably soon want it more than you and youll be the one claiming headaches!

Enjoy

im not English but.....

Gary Neville anyone.....He certainly seems to know alot more about football than all the other managers who are brought in as a pundit for a day or 2

Hot Rod

Worst. VT thread. Ever.

I dunno, have you looked in the Villa talk section!

maxim tsigalko scored 2 goals a games and cost like 1 mil

was that the season Wimbledon were sponsored by Eidos and Lionel Morgan was also unbelievable?

I think they were the same year

Yeah, its Warrior they sold it to.

Warrior are a lacrosse and Ice hockey Brand.

I am very intrigued to see a Warrior Football kit

heres their website: http://www.warrior.com/

ummmm its good but not that good, its not quite: Aguero, Messi, Tevez, Milito, Levezzi, Higuain

Fair enough at the moment i cant see someone who is depressed because of certain important events as having an illness/sickness..... They are depressed because of their emotional attachment to those events.

I see a difference between someone who has lost the wife they truly loved to someone who finds little happyness in life and nearly seems to make all his problems worse.

So you believe what Dean Windass has is depression.

therefor you believe he has an illness as depression is an illness. right?

Im really not trying to stir anything or troll if thats the right thing to say but you see this is where i dont like the term illness. Dont get me wrong i know there are many people who are depressed as a state of mind and maybe that can be stated as an illness and i feel for those that have it, i would nearly consider myself the other way round, luckily. However Dean Windass wouldnt be depressed if these things didnt happen to him. He couldnt/cant cope, is that not different?

I am nearly ignoring the fact that it looks like he has caused his own depression - having the rift with his father, breaking his marriage.......

so is everyone who is depressed, does everyone who kill themselves have this illness?

ok so this topic is becoming about depression rather than Dean so as i would say i am quite niave on the subject and i consider myself nearly too rational in my thinking. I have a friend in my group who we believe suffer from a mild depression and i try help with that best i can being the person he would turn to.

would someone be able to inform me or point me in the right direction in the thoughts behind depression being an illness. i mean does that mean anyone can get it? I dont believe i will ever have this problem (maybe im wrong or you believe i could be). whats the difference between depression and being down... to me it seems in alot of cases depression is caused by things (money, opposite sex, loss of lives). I mean can a footballer loosing his money and fans causing him to be depressed be described as depression?

I do not mean to offend anyone but a lack of knowledge can do that sometimes

Well i may have lied just to try and win my bet!

But i have been known to enjoy a couple of moments with an ex from time to time.

Then again everyone differs. I get along with all my ex's. out of the last 3... 2 i live in different countries to (ones in the states and one is in Ireland) and the third we live too different lives to date. So i see the one from Ireland some weekends and iv met with the other a couple of times after. I have also stayed with the american for a couple of days while i was in the states.

Id much rather that than a one night stand. Theres no awkwardness. You know actually what flicks their switch and they know exactly what flicks yours. theres no false pretenses/ promises or lies. Its just good fun. Theres obviously a little more to it than just sex (not alot but a little, for me anyway) but we both know the situation and we arent hurting anybody. I dont want that with a stranger, i want to know a person before i sleep with them.

Anyway im sure you will see, Dante, I have conceeded! please take this symbol above my name as the end of the bet! go have fun if you want without any fee needed to be paid!*

edit: * Golden Lion to arrive shortly

I had ex sex this weekend! It defiantly has to be the best type of sex! So damn good! Dante you should get on this bandwagon. It might already be too late!

that my Senior in the office has moved desk to right behind me and therfore facebook and villatalk will be very much at a low for me from now on.

might be lingering during lunch for a short while, otherwise, laters aligators!

P.S Dante, if you read this just sleep with the Ex already!

balls deep in his ex?

are not all leggings skin-tight?

sure... if im paying a tenner and all

Although i do live in london so not much use to me...i bet

you got any hot horny ex's in London?

oh no!

wait....you ex is not ill right???? (physically not mentally)

nope, as the money we are donating to VT. So VT is the PIMP

Dante has so much more control over the bet (obviously) so im just trying to do what I can to even the playing fields.

To be fair well played to him, I wouldn’t have even lasted the 1st day of the month in his situation

not sure if you have seen but i have a VT bet woth Dante and i want to win it

Dante - just smash you hot Ex!

it can only be ddescribed as freeeee Moneeeyyyyy!

I've always preferred the shy, mysterious, smart guy at the back of a room.

Ahh the serial killer.

I firmly believe that there is too much made about types when really its just about people getting on and having a laugh and sometimes you can get that from the person you least expected it from.

The whole type thing can often narrow peoples choices down too much and they never find the right person instead of just being open minded and giving everyone a fair crack of the whip.

Like you said as long as Dante is himself he'll be fine if he's looking for something long term, if he's looking for just a fumble then he can be whoever he wants.

Dante, if you are looking to get your confidence up you should read a book called The Game by Neill Strauss its a bit cheesy, over the top and unbelievable at times but some of the stuff in there can help you, errr *stutter* so ive been errr told.

I was with you till the End then you came up with 'The Game'

Dont get me wrong it was a brilliant read but its not a self help book. It might show you some of the things you do when flirting that you didnt realise you do. Read the book sure, but using its techniques to pick up women will not get you a girlfriend/relationship which is what we believe Dante is looking for otherwise hed go and smash his ex in the gloriousness of ex sex!