The person you talk about is no longer a moderator.
The main problems with the OS forum are also that it is out of date - I'm not having a go at Villa or anything but its taken a long time to get people to sit up and take notice, a lot of the time PTV were saying one thing but doing another as well - but luckily it looks like things now are going our way.
The OS forum could be a smashing place, the only thing that bothers me is that the trust of a lot of the intelligent members (Ed/Papa/yourself...etc) may have been lost. All I can say is when the new forum does arrive the members such as yourself/chris etc will be needed for your views as to what you want from the place, what you think could be done and what it would take for you to enjoy the whole OS experience.
I'll stop now, I sound like an old man *slaps self*