Stevo985 Posted March 2, 2014 VT Supporter Share Posted March 2, 2014 It depends. People have differing attitudes to sex and its role in a relationship. For some, monogamy is a big deal, for various reasons, many undoubtedly informed by social traditions. For others, sex hasn't such a big part to play, and what matters are other aspects of the relationship. I don't think a man/woman who likes to watch their partner get **** is somehow morally dubious and unfit to be a parent or whatever. It's just sex. People enjoy different things.of course. As I said, each to their own. Certainly isn't for me though.I'm not watching her shag another bloke? Did any of you actually read the post?no one said you were. My post was aimed at the more general poi y of swinging/orgies that had been made. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chrisp65 Posted March 2, 2014 Share Posted March 2, 2014 Fire tennis balls out of her foo foo? I was really happy with the service I received Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snowychap Posted March 2, 2014 Share Posted March 2, 2014 Fire tennis balls out of her foo foo? Start small - ping pong balls first off. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Baselayers Posted March 2, 2014 Share Posted March 2, 2014 Nothing wrong with a challenge haha 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dont_do_it_doug. Posted March 2, 2014 Share Posted March 2, 2014 I know you said that your mrs wanted to watch you shag some other bird, would you get off on it if it was the other way round? Fair play to couples that are in to that kind of thing, it works for some relationships and not others, each to their own. Their is something about it that turns me on and also my mrs would get turned on by it. But it would end up being a problem for us especialy now. It was something we looked in to when we were first together but nothing come of it I couldn't do it the other way round no and neither could she. She's open minded, like me, to the point where as long as everyone is having fun then what's the issue? It's not "swinging" per se, nor is it an orgy. It's a threesome with a twist. She gets turned on by watching her "man" give pleasure, some people might think that weird but I don't really care much for the morals of others. As long as we're happy then fan-dabby-dosy. She'll probably get involved anyway. How on earth that might make her a bad mother or me a bad father is beyond my understanding, truly it is. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snowychap Posted March 2, 2014 Share Posted March 2, 2014 (edited) Nothing wrong with a challenge haha You'd need thighs (and a pelvis) like Kristina Vogel to pump tennis balls out at anything more than a cat hacking up a furball, surely? Edited March 2, 2014 by snowychap 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dont_do_it_doug. Posted March 2, 2014 Share Posted March 2, 2014 It depends. People have differing attitudes to sex and its role in a relationship. For some, monogamy is a big deal, for various reasons, many undoubtedly informed by social traditions. For others, sex hasn't such a big part to play, and what matters are other aspects of the relationship. I don't think a man/woman who likes to watch their partner get **** is somehow morally dubious and unfit to be a parent or whatever. It's just sex. People enjoy different things.of course. As I said, each to their own. Certainly isn't for me though. I'm not watching her shag another bloke? Did any of you actually read the post?no one said you were. My post was aimed at the more general poi y of swinging/orgies that had been made. Fair enough Stevo, I was perturbed by the comment about it somehow affecting parenting skills and the rest of the conversation got jumbled from there. Nah I'm not into that game at all. Dogging and all that jazz. That does seen a bit sad to me, and dangerous. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
villaajax Posted March 2, 2014 Share Posted March 2, 2014 What do you mean by 'dogging'? 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dont_do_it_doug. Posted March 2, 2014 Share Posted March 2, 2014 (edited) Rugeley - if you ever sack your missus off or vice versa, send her my way? What do you mean by 'dogging'? Ahhhh ****... Edited March 2, 2014 by dont_do_it_doug. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NurembergVillan Posted March 2, 2014 Moderator Share Posted March 2, 2014 Fire tennis balls out of her foo foo? Human cannonballs... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snowychap Posted March 2, 2014 Share Posted March 2, 2014 (edited) As long as we're happy then fan-dabby-dosy.If the following image doesn't put you off any intercourse then I'm worried: Edited March 2, 2014 by snowychap 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dont_do_it_doug. Posted March 2, 2014 Share Posted March 2, 2014 I've only just noticed that the dude from the crankies looks like Fred West... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugeley Villa Posted March 3, 2014 Share Posted March 3, 2014 I know you said that your mrs wanted to watch you shag some other bird, would you get off on it if it was the other way round? Fair play to couples that are in to that kind of thing, it works for some relationships and not others, each to their own. Their is something about it that turns me on and also my mrs would get turned on by it. But it would end up being a problem for us especialy now. It was something we looked in to when we were first together but nothing come of it I couldn't do it the other way round no and neither could she. She's open minded, like me, to the point where as long as everyone is having fun then what's the issue? It's not "swinging" per se, nor is it an orgy. It's a threesome with a twist. She gets turned on by watching her "man" give pleasure, some people might think that weird but I don't really care much for the morals of others. As long as we're happy then fan-dabby-dosy. She'll probably get involved anyway. How on earth that might make her a bad mother or me a bad father is beyond my understanding, truly it is. fair play to you both. I can't see either how it makes anyone a bad mother or father. Don't get me wrong it aint for everyone and I respect people who just don't see the thrill of it but sex is their to be enjoyed. What's normal to some people aint to others, each to their own Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugeley Villa Posted March 3, 2014 Share Posted March 3, 2014 Rugeley - if you ever sack your missus off or vice versa, send her my way? . not a problem at all. Aslong as you return the favour 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thetrees Posted March 3, 2014 Share Posted March 3, 2014 One of my pictures made it onto 'Mail online' Will I be thrown of VT, or just lynched by the vociferous VT left? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugeley Villa Posted March 3, 2014 Share Posted March 3, 2014 To be honest my mrs is extremely broad minded. Their is only one thing she would not do and that's mess around with shit, piss yes but not shit. She would have sex 3 times a day if she could and is always up for most stuff. I had this fetish and still have, and she learnt herself how to do this thing for me. She's a good girl. She loves all that bondage shit but if I'm honest it does not do it for me one bit. Never have been in to itWhat did she learn to do? To use the medical word, its called female ejaculation and I love it! Does not happen often but it does happen on occasions 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abdomlahor Posted March 3, 2014 Share Posted March 3, 2014 (edited) I tend to associate people's avatar with what they look like in real life. With Rugeley's avatar depicting a child, it means that I've been envisioning a toddler discuss the social taboos of female ejaculation, dogging and swinging for the past few pages. Edited March 3, 2014 by adz.villa 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugeley Villa Posted March 3, 2014 Share Posted March 3, 2014 You would not be wrong, I'm very child like in person and don't feel the need to grow up much. Never been swinging or dogging if I'm honest. Plenty of gang banging and all that type of stuff. Dogging does not appeal to me one bit Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugeley Villa Posted March 3, 2014 Share Posted March 3, 2014 I myself have a vision on how fellow villa talkers look. A lot of that goes by their profile picture Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rjw63 Posted March 3, 2014 Share Posted March 3, 2014 I onced worked with a bloke who was in his 50s and we got on like a house on fire. Both in to the same music etc, anyway he was probably the most broad minded bloke I've ever met, he would have swinging parties at his house and go dogging all the time. Some of the stories were crazy. Some people thought he was perverted which in a way we all are, but that was just how he was. Crazy crazy bloke with huge character. Could write a book on his escapades Strange...I don't remember meeting you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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