Designer1 Posted February 1, 2020 VT Supporter Share Posted February 1, 2020 13 minutes ago, rjw63 said: My wife can be a bit snappy sometimes but she'll admit it and apologise. A good 'un You punch well above your weight Roberto, she's a lovely lady 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Davkaus Posted February 2, 2020 Share Posted February 2, 2020 11 hours ago, Xela said: Terry Christian has let himself go He's starting to look more like Jack Black these days. He really needs to look after himself more! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mikeyp102 Posted February 2, 2020 Share Posted February 2, 2020 18 hours ago, mjmooney said: Well she's 65, but she's very keen on younger blokes (which maybe one of her problems). You know the rule, pics or GTFO 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mikeyp102 Posted February 2, 2020 Share Posted February 2, 2020 15 hours ago, Xela said: Oh I'm fine with compromises. I'm not *that* stubborn yet that I realise I can have all my cake and eat it when I want! I think I've just had my fingers burnt in the past and been involved in a few unhealthy relationships. Nothing physical but more emotional and behavioural. When you meet someone you really like, a few tweaks here and there is fine in terms of compromises but having someone continually chip away at you and trying to change your personality then its not on. As Mikey said about his ex, I don't want to have someone who ignores me because I cheated on her in her dreams and she gets the hump. That is nothing short of batshit mental. I'd love nothing more than to meet my soul mate, my partner in crime, my best buddy, etc but perhaps I'm subconsciously less open to 'letting people in' now. I'm fine with my own company in general but like this week, a couple of days in the Cotswolds, it would have been lovely to share that with someone. Sit down to dinner and drinks in the evening. Its not even the physical side I miss most, its more the companionship, like you say. I'm a fairly simple guy when it comes to relationships. I don't lie, I don't say one thing and mean another, I don't over promise and under deliver and I don't cheat... probably because i'm a terrible liar and wouldn't be able to cope with the stress! I'm sure there are plenty of women out there for me but they're well hidden at present! I've had a couple of opportunities in the last few months with women but as I know them too well (via work and a friend of a friend) I know some of the mental shit they have pulled in the past. Got no time for that. This is exactly where I’m at (awts VT response that we should get together, especially as we all know what you like to do in Thailand ) 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xela Posted February 2, 2020 Share Posted February 2, 2020 9 minutes ago, mikeyp102 said: (awts VT response that we should get together, especially as we all know what you like to do in Thailand ) Nothing but scurrilous rumours and hearsay 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mottaloo Posted February 3, 2020 Share Posted February 3, 2020 (edited) On 02/02/2020 at 12:12, mikeyp102 said: This is exactly where I’m at (awts VT response that we should get together, especially as we all know what you like to do in Thailand ) Edited February 3, 2020 by mottaloo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rodders0223 Posted February 4, 2020 Share Posted February 4, 2020 Last few pages have made me really appreciate my girlfriend. Y'all have been dating crazies. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sam-AVFC Posted February 4, 2020 Share Posted February 4, 2020 On 01/02/2020 at 17:49, chrisp65 said: wanted a big titted young beauty that could cook with one hand and wank him off with the other Reckon he’d be interested in someone with 3 out of 4? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sam-AVFC Posted February 4, 2020 Share Posted February 4, 2020 50 minutes ago, rodders0223 said: Last few pages have made me really appreciate my girlfriend. Y'all have been dating crazies. I specifically look for someone a bit crazy which is probably where I’m going wrong... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chrisp65 Posted February 4, 2020 Share Posted February 4, 2020 2 minutes ago, Sam-AVFC said: Reckon he’d be interested in someone with 3 out of 4? Nah, he’s done now, happy as anything. The only slightly awkward thing for me, we sort of go to gigs as a foursey, with her sister making up the four. Perfectly good fun, they’ve got good gig etiquette. But I do not have a clue what her sister’s name is and it’s sort of gone on too long to ask now. I just know at some point I’m going to have to confront it. It’s really difficult to say something along the lines of ‘now we’ve been to gigs in London, Cardiff, Chepstow, Bristol, Gloucester and a few other places over the last few years...what’s your name?’ I’ve already warned my missus that if we do meet up in a wider social thing I will not be doing formal introductions. Which obviously means my missus will now march in and announce ‘are you going to introduce us?’ Because she thinks she’s reeeeally funny. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sam-AVFC Posted February 4, 2020 Share Posted February 4, 2020 (edited) Love that @chrisp65 Reminds me of that person in the office you speak to at the coffee machine on day one and two years later still don’t know their name so you just go for “heyyy mate”. Thankfully my new company has everyone’s pictures online so I can stalk to avoid the awkwardness...unless they walk behind me when I’ve got a photo of them on my screen. I hope your wife does do the introduction thing. I got someone with that before. He got away with it but was fun to watch the squirming. Edited February 4, 2020 by Sam-AVFC 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Genie Posted February 4, 2020 Share Posted February 4, 2020 5 hours ago, Sam-AVFC said: Love that @chrisp65 Reminds me of that person in the office you speak to at the coffee machine on day one and two years later still don’t know their name so you just go for “heyyy mate”. Thankfully my new company has everyone’s pictures online so I can stalk to avoid the awkwardness...unless they walk behind me when I’ve got a photo of them on my screen. I hope your wife does do the introduction thing. I got someone with that before. He got away with it but was fun to watch the squirming. Used to be a director at my place of work, I used to have to a lot of presentations to him a while back but then not so much as I changed jobs. When we’d cross paths he’d be “hi mate, you ok?” every time. Clearly didn’t know my name. Used to make me laugh as he was trying to be friendly. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sam-AVFC Posted February 5, 2020 Share Posted February 5, 2020 13 hours ago, Genie said: Used to be a director at my place of work, I used to have to a lot of presentations to him a while back but then not so much as I changed jobs. When we’d cross paths he’d be “hi mate, you ok?” every time. Clearly didn’t know my name. Used to make me laugh as he was trying to be friendly. I find it quite funny too. The thought that you both know one (or both) of you don’t know the others name but can’t bring yourself to actually address it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
il_serpente Posted February 5, 2020 VT Supporter Share Posted February 5, 2020 On 04/02/2020 at 06:42, Sam-AVFC said: I specifically look for someone a bit crazy which is probably where I’m going wrong... 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sam-AVFC Posted February 13, 2020 Share Posted February 13, 2020 Not really the right place, but I don’t think there’s one for spinsters... As the perennially sad single I forget about Valentine’s Day every year without fail until I walk into a shop or bar/restaurant and am really confused by it being so busy. This year I had the depressing realisation when I went in to Hotel Chocolat shopping for myself Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rjw63 Posted February 14, 2020 Share Posted February 14, 2020 19 hours ago, Sam-AVFC said: Not really the right place, but I don’t think there’s one for spinsters... As the perennially sad single I forget about Valentine’s Day every year without fail until I walk into a shop or bar/restaurant and am really confused by it being so busy. This year I had the depressing realisation when I went in to Hotel Chocolat shopping for myself Got my missus a few goodies (and it's her birthday tomorrow, double whammy) and didn't have to leave the house. Internet shopping FTW Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mjmooney Posted February 14, 2020 VT Supporter Share Posted February 14, 2020 On 13/02/2020 at 16:43, Sam-AVFC said: Not really the right place, but I don’t think there’s one for spinsters... Wait, what? A female VTer? I thought we'd driven them all out? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xela Posted February 14, 2020 Share Posted February 14, 2020 This is not the forum to admit you are female! Spinster is a horrible word isn't it? I guess the male version is bachelor, but that seems far more "acceptable" in modern times. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mottaloo Posted February 14, 2020 Share Posted February 14, 2020 5 minutes ago, Xela said: This is not the forum to admit you are female! Spinster is a horrible word isn't it? I guess the male version is bachelor, but that seems far more "acceptable" in modern times. Bachelor, you say ? There can be only one : 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sam-AVFC Posted February 14, 2020 Share Posted February 14, 2020 Tell your soldiers to stand down boys. I’m afraid if I was a female it would not be attractive. I just used spinster because bachelor has connotations of an old homosexual. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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