lapal_fan Posted July 12, 2018 Share Posted July 12, 2018 58 minutes ago, VILLAMARV said: People's foibles about compatability (I knew a girl once who dumped someone because of what shoes they wore! In actual adult life!) are wide and varied. But you know, if you like running - join a running club. If you like bridge - join a bridge club. If you like music go to gigs/start a band etc. Be yourself, do the things you like doing and make it somewhere where you're likely to meet people. Not going to happen sat around the house (unless you're a baller I suppose!) and if someone you might like actually bothers speaking to you, ask lots of questions. Most people like talking about themselves. Always ask more questions. Even if they don't appear you're bound to run into one of those matchmaker types who'll have "the perfect date for you" at some point What? With all Stefan's imaginary friends? 51 minutes ago, StefanAVFC said: My hobbies are so blokey though! I play football, cycle and go out with my mates. You're right though, I need a new, female centric hobby Found the perfect woman for you; 45 minutes ago, mjmooney said: Running clubs (if mine is anything to go by) are totty goldmines. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VILLAMARV Posted July 12, 2018 Share Posted July 12, 2018 22 minutes ago, lapal_fan said: What? With all Stefan's imaginary friends? Found the perfect woman for you; Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lapal_fan Posted July 12, 2018 Share Posted July 12, 2018 1 minute ago, VILLAMARV said: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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A'Villan Posted July 12, 2018 Share Posted July 12, 2018 (edited) 5 hours ago, StefanAVFC said: This is probably a dumb question, but whatever. Where do people meet people of the opposite sex? I feel like my only place is either on shit like Tinder (which I hate) or at work (and I'm not just going to go up to random girls that I have my eye on, it's weird) So where do you meet people? I haven't met a new person who I'm interested in, that wasn't on Tinder in months. I think it's due to my hate for going up to random people. The thought just makes me cringe. I got in to it for what I consider to be the right reasons, but I will share this. Volunteering with the homeless and at risk youth, I have met a number of really down to earth women. Not only are they good people with a head on their shoulders, some are very attractive physically. I am assuming many a charity would be the same. Win-win situation. Popular pubs are also obviously a place to meet physically attractive women. I don't drink at all, but I have enjoyed many good times from the rare occasion I venture to one. I think the biggest thing for you is possibly to overcome your reluctance to talk to strangers by focusing on congruence with whoever you're going to speak to, rather than seeming like a weirdo. "I can accept failure, but I can't accept not trying" -Michael Jordan. Why don't you join a mixed sports team, like futsal, or something you haven't tried before even. It's not guaranteed you'll meet the women of your dreams but it's better than doing the same old. There are beautiful women everywhere though, I suppose it's up to you to decide the kind of situation in which you'd be comfortable to approach them. If all else fails, there's always church (hey, she'd be faithful ). Edited July 12, 2018 by A'Villan Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rodders Posted July 12, 2018 Share Posted July 12, 2018 3 minutes ago, A'Villan said: If all else fails, there's always church (hey, she'd be faithful ). Er, my experience this is very much not always the case! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lapal_fan Posted July 12, 2018 Share Posted July 12, 2018 2 minutes ago, Rodders said: Er, my experience this is very much not always the case! It's wasn't her fault God gave you a tiny pecker Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
A'Villan Posted July 12, 2018 Share Posted July 12, 2018 2 minutes ago, Rodders said: Er, my experience this is very much not always the case! It was a bit of a joke, hence the wink. Faithful as in, faithful to God. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rodders Posted July 12, 2018 Share Posted July 12, 2018 4 minutes ago, lapal_fan said: It's wasn't her fault God gave you a tiny pecker It was too hot to handle https://i.imgur.com/0R0pAKn.gifv 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VILLAMARV Posted July 12, 2018 Share Posted July 12, 2018 Classic Projection Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mikeyp102 Posted July 12, 2018 Share Posted July 12, 2018 9 hours ago, StefanAVFC said: This is probably a dumb question, but whatever. Where do people meet people of the opposite sex? I feel like my only place is either on shit like Tinder (which I hate) or at work (and I'm not just going to go up to random girls that I have my eye on, it's weird) So where do you meet people? I haven't met a new person who I'm interested in, that wasn't on Tinder in months. I think it's due to my hate for going up to random people. The thought just makes me cringe. I’m the same, it’s been tinder or bumble for me but hate the whole app thing. But also like you hate the approach. I have heard speed dating is pretty good but haven’t done it yet Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StefanAVFC Posted July 12, 2018 Share Posted July 12, 2018 I'm joining a choir at the university nearby. I always sang through high school/uni and there will be plenty of girls. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chrisp65 Posted July 12, 2018 Share Posted July 12, 2018 (edited) Edited July 12, 2018 by chrisp65 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lapal_fan Posted July 12, 2018 Share Posted July 12, 2018 3 hours ago, StefanAVFC said: I'm joining a choir at the university nearby. I always sang through high school/uni and there will be plenty of girls. *MUST.NOT.COMMENT* 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MickeyC_UTV Posted July 12, 2018 Share Posted July 12, 2018 7 hours ago, Rodders said: It was too hot to handle https://i.imgur.com/0R0pAKn.gifv I think you spent too much time polishing it!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Demitri_C Posted July 13, 2018 Share Posted July 13, 2018 21 hours ago, StefanAVFC said: This is probably a dumb question, but whatever. Where do people meet people of the opposite sex? I feel like my only place is either on shit like Tinder (which I hate) or at work (and I'm not just going to go up to random girls that I have my eye on, it's weird) So where do you meet people? I haven't met a new person who I'm interested in, that wasn't on Tinder in months. I think it's due to my hate for going up to random people. The thought just makes me cringe. I must be late to the party but I thought you was dating someone and it was going well? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mjmooney Posted July 13, 2018 VT Supporter Share Posted July 13, 2018 12 hours ago, StefanAVFC said: I'm joining a choir at the university nearby. I always sang through high school/uni and there will be plenty of girls. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mjmooney Posted July 13, 2018 VT Supporter Share Posted July 13, 2018 Seriously though, if you're into choral singing, a choir is a good idea. The mixed ones are always predominantly female. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StefanAVFC Posted July 13, 2018 Share Posted July 13, 2018 1 hour ago, Demitri_C said: I must be late to the party but I thought you was dating someone and it was going well? You're very late I haven't been dating anyone since January. I went on a few dates with a girl i really liked around March time but she chewed me up and spat me out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StefanAVFC Posted July 13, 2018 Share Posted July 13, 2018 7 minutes ago, mjmooney said: Seriously though, if you're into choral singing, a choir is a good idea. The mixed ones are always predominantly female. Yeah for sure. I do enjoy it and it's definitely a good place to meet people. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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