Demitri_C Posted November 12, 2016 Share Posted November 12, 2016 59 minutes ago, Davkaus said: I sure can pick them, possibly up there with my most interesting first dates Crazy cat lady (I don't mind that, cats are ace, but I'm spotting a trend with these women) Pushes it back by half an hour an hour before we were meant to meet, fair enough, shit happens 15 minutes after the pushed back time she tells me she's just left the house, and she'll be there in 15 minutes. At this point I should have just gone home, but I was already sat down with a drink, so whatever Mentions a diagnosed case of depression that keeps her out of work, which is a little concerning I knew she liked her kink, which is cool, but after the first date, she messaged me to tell me she wanted to lock my cock up for a week in a chastity cage The cats I been there if they live alone and have more than one cat it usually means... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xela Posted November 12, 2016 Share Posted November 12, 2016 1 hour ago, Davkaus said: I sure can pick them, possibly up there with my most interesting first dates Crazy cat lady (I don't mind that, cats are ace, but I'm spotting a trend with these women) Pushes it back by half an hour an hour before we were meant to meet, fair enough, shit happens 15 minutes after the pushed back time she tells me she's just left the house, and she'll be there in 15 minutes. At this point I should have just gone home, but I was already sat down with a drink, so whatever Mentions a diagnosed case of depression that keeps her out of work, which is a little concerning I knew she liked her kink, which is cool, but after the first date, she messaged me to tell me she wanted to lock my cock up for a week in a chastity cage What dating site you on? Plenty Of Lunatics? 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Davkaus Posted November 12, 2016 Share Posted November 12, 2016 32 minutes ago, Demitri_C said: The cats I been there if they live alone and have more than one cat it usually means... ...I live alone and have more than one cat Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Demitri_C Posted November 12, 2016 Share Posted November 12, 2016 7 hours ago, Davkaus said: ...I live alone and have more than one cat Your female? wanna date? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Wainy316 Posted November 13, 2016 Popular Post Share Posted November 13, 2016 8 hours ago, mikeyp102 said: Sounds like a keeper... Dhutwu Sounds like Stefan Postma. 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ingram85 Posted November 13, 2016 Share Posted November 13, 2016 18 hours ago, Davkaus said: I sure can pick them, possibly up there with my most interesting first dates Crazy cat lady (I don't mind that, cats are ace, but I'm spotting a trend with these women) Pushes it back by half an hour an hour before we were meant to meet, fair enough, shit happens 15 minutes after the pushed back time she tells me she's just left the house, and she'll be there in 15 minutes. At this point I should have just gone home, but I was already sat down with a drink, so whatever Mentions a diagnosed case of depression that keeps her out of work, which is a little concerning I knew she liked her kink, which is cool, but after the first date, she messaged me to tell me she wanted to lock my cock up for a week in a chastity cage Did she wear glasses, have tattoos and have red/purple dyed hair? Sounds eerily similar to a girl I went out with years ago. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jonno_2004 Posted November 13, 2016 Share Posted November 13, 2016 Anticipating an awkward relationship pep talk with one of my best mates in the near future. He moved to Manchester with his fiance last year and just didn't enjoy it there (who can blame him ) - they moved primarily because it was better for her career and its where she went to Uni. He's now moved back home for work and she's still there. Really not sure how the conversation can avoid the inevitability of where their relationship seems to be heading. Imagine if she moved back to save their relationship for the sake of her career there would always be an unhealthy resentment there. Not good. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Demitri_C Posted November 17, 2016 Share Posted November 17, 2016 From having a bit of a dry spell for few weeks suddenly I am talking to about four different girls. Got a date on weekend with that girl that added me on facebook this weekend. She is asking alot of questions about me. I don't get women why they want to know absolutely everything about you before you have even met up! What the hell will you talk about on the actual date! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TrentVilla Posted November 17, 2016 Moderator Share Posted November 17, 2016 28 minutes ago, Demitri_C said: From having a bit of a dry spell for few weeks suddenly I am talking to about four different girls. Got a date on weekend with that girl that added me on facebook this weekend. She is asking alot of questions about me. I don't get women why they want to know absolutely everything about you before you have even met up! What the hell will you talk about on the actual date! Why you don't look the same as the guy in the pictures you used, obviously! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Ingram85 Posted December 10, 2016 Popular Post Share Posted December 10, 2016 Well,not quite divorced yet but it's still amicable, still co-existing and still quasi room mates in our house but we have a plan to get things going next year so we can both move on with our lives. So while not much actual progress, mentally I'm more in the right place and it's not dragging me down anymore. The last month or so, I've been chatting to a female colleague at work who while not in quite the same situation as me is going through a similar ordeal. She's a great, incredibly beautiful polish girl who talks to me like an actual adult about adult things and while we know we are crazy about each other it's torture not quite being able to do much about it just yet but it's incredibly exciting that we'll be seeing each other once the dust has settled. Our colleagues are sick of it already and just waiting for us to get on with it I think. She's my age, knows my situation completely, already has a kid but wants more (yay!) and is just **** brilliant. My only worry is that she is too good looking for me, we went to the works Xmas do last night, she picked me up and looked stunning, so stunning that chavs were whistling at her from their nova's in traffic lol but **** it, it's a compliment right? and she shouted at them to **** off out the window lol. Knowing she likes me, the constant flirting, texts, the openness of the conversation, knowing each other's situations completely, the honesty and openness of it all and all that stuff, I feel like a little kid lol. The plus side is that me and the - for now - other half have already talked about meeting other people and how we deal with it in the present and both of us said go for it if it happens, she knows I've met someone and I think she's met someone too which is helping it all. I think subconsciously we want each other to meet someone new as it will spur us on to get the divorce done quicker instead of coasting. Anyway, enough of my giddy rambling, it could all go tits up and things could change, it could never happen and I'm definitely not putting all my eggs in one basket but I'm happy again and I missed feeling like that. /ghey 15 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ginko Posted December 10, 2016 Share Posted December 10, 2016 Happy for you Rich, definitely a good sign that you're being totally open and honest with both your wife and this other girl. Hope it all works out for the best for you all. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tegis Posted December 11, 2016 VT Supporter Share Posted December 11, 2016 That post cheered me up massively this morning. Happy for you mate! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xela Posted December 11, 2016 Share Posted December 11, 2016 14 hours ago, Ingram85 said: Well,not quite divorced yet but it's still amicable, still co-existing and still quasi room mates in our house but we have a plan to get things going next year so we can both move on with our lives. So while not much actual progress, mentally I'm more in the right place and it's not dragging me down anymore. The last month or so, I've been chatting to a female colleague at work who while not in quite the same situation as me is going through a similar ordeal. She's a great, incredibly beautiful polish girl who talks to me like an actual adult about adult things and while we know we are crazy about each other it's torture not quite being able to do much about it just yet but it's incredibly exciting that we'll be seeing each other once the dust has settled. Our colleagues are sick of it already and just waiting for us to get on with it I think. She's my age, knows my situation completely, already has a kid but wants more (yay!) and is just **** brilliant. My only worry is that she is too good looking for me, we went to the works Xmas do last night, she picked me up and looked stunning, so stunning that chavs were whistling at her from their nova's in traffic lol but **** it, it's a compliment right? and she shouted at them to **** off out the window lol. Knowing she likes me, the constant flirting, texts, the openness of the conversation, knowing each other's situations completely, the honesty and openness of it all and all that stuff, I feel like a little kid lol. The plus side is that me and the - for now - other half have already talked about meeting other people and how we deal with it in the present and both of us said go for it if it happens, she knows I've met someone and I think she's met someone too which is helping it all. I think subconsciously we want each other to meet someone new as it will spur us on to get the divorce done quicker instead of coasting. Anyway, enough of my giddy rambling, it could all go tits up and things could change, it could never happen and I'm definitely not putting all my eggs in one basket but I'm happy again and I missed feeling like that. /ghey Genuinely delighted for you mate, you deserve it after what you have been through. Don't ever think a girl is too hot for you, she is obviously well into you so don't let that doubt get into you mind or worry about it. Plus women are less shallow than us men! You say that you can't do anything about it yet? Why? Because you are still living as quasi housemates with your wife? Don't delay with this new girl... its Christmas, its the perfect time to be together and spend times with the ones you care about. You and your soon to be ex wife have both agreed to move on, so don't delay! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chrisp65 Posted December 11, 2016 Share Posted December 11, 2016 it's not Christmas without trying a different stuffing 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xela Posted December 11, 2016 Share Posted December 11, 2016 As for me, I've vowed to get back in the game in the new year. Start dating and making an effort. I've been mainly content being single for a number of years and taking the one night stands and holiday shags where I can but I think I'm getting too long in the tooth for that now. I do hanker for more than just t & a now... I want friendship, company and love (/ghey). Its no doubt due to the time of year. I did think something could happen with a lovely girl earlier this year but just too many obstacles in the way, plus it became plainly clear that while we really enjoy each others company, we are just at different ends of the spectrum. She was much younger, lives with her parents, likes clubbing and hasn't really decided on a career yet... while i'm at the other end of the scale. My clubbing days are over and i'm looking at the best strategies and what to do with my investments to get an early retirement as possible! While having a stunning early twenty something girl like you is an ego boost, its probably not practical in most circumstances to take it further! Oh well, the journey begins... 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Demitri_C Posted December 12, 2016 Share Posted December 12, 2016 happy for you @Ingram85 mate. @Xela I went out with a hot younger girl years ago but mate like you say its nice to have but if your looking for something long term wont be the answer. Just one big headache. better to find somoen on your vibe. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Demitri_C Posted December 12, 2016 Popular Post Share Posted December 12, 2016 As for me...so you remember I was telling you some girl adding me on facebook and messaged me first and I had my doubts that she might be crazy? Well as @hogso said he had something similar happen to him and it worked out for him, I gave it a shot... we are now a official couple. she is fantastic we get on so well. Really pleasantly surprised how its turned out 8 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hogso Posted December 12, 2016 Share Posted December 12, 2016 Pleased to hear it Dem. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PieFacE Posted December 12, 2016 VT Supporter Share Posted December 12, 2016 Yay well done Dem! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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