Ingram85 Posted February 6, 2016 Share Posted February 6, 2016 17 hours ago, lapal_fan said: To be fair, I went along with my now wife and mom to a horse riding thing - it was embarrassing at first, but it was actually pretty fun. And all we were doing was going round in a circle in a big barn thing - I felt like John Martson ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phily85 Posted February 6, 2016 Share Posted February 6, 2016 Just to be clear I have no intention of doing anything with this women it is just messing with my head when the women who you are with can be that distant and nasty. And there is somebody else who you are getting along with Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rodders Posted February 6, 2016 Share Posted February 6, 2016 I'd immediately backpeddle away from the friend for a while - avoid all temptation. Focus on the kid. Above all else you don't want additional stress on the baby or the baby's mother at this time. If you and the partner aren't meant to be, then so be it, but rash decisions in straining moments are unwise to say the least. Has your partner always been that way or is just in the past few months? With the baby on the way, it has to be worth considering options like counselling etc to try and find healthy or safe spaces to work out what you both want from the relationship. But if it doesn't work, an unpleasant environment in the long run is not good for kids either. Easy to say all this on the outside I know etc but good luck. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lapal_fan Posted February 6, 2016 Share Posted February 6, 2016 Shit situation is about to get better with the birth of baby, but then worse as baby grows and becomes increasingly dependant and harder work. It's incredibly rewarding to be a parent, but it can wear a bit thin if baby is unsettled, you think one thing but your other half thinks another, everything is a compromise. The immediate happiness is amazing though, try and go with that. Good luck! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Davkaus Posted February 6, 2016 Share Posted February 6, 2016 19 hours ago, Xela said: Where on earth do you meet these girls? A Nazi dating site?! How did you leave things with her? Maybe my POF profile photo shouldn't have me stood in front of a Panzer, with a toothbrush moustache. In my defence, there have only been two racists, one woman that turned up outside my house after one date, and the one that told me about a dream involving child molestation. That's only 4 terrible dates, I don't post about the good ones! I tried to give her the benefit of the doubt and give her a way to back out of it and said something like "I don't think you're supposed to call them that anymore" (Yeah, I know), to which she replied "It's alright, there aren't any here." 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post chrisp65 Posted February 6, 2016 Popular Post Share Posted February 6, 2016 6 hours ago, Davkaus said: Maybe my POF profile photo shouldn't have me stood in front of a Panzer, with a toothbrush moustache. In my defence, there have only been two racists, one woman that turned up outside my house after one date, and the one that told me about a dream involving child molestation. That's only 4 terrible dates, I don't post about the good ones! I tried to give her the benefit of the doubt and give her a way to back out of it and said something like "I don't think you're supposed to call them that anymore" (Yeah, I know), to which she replied "It's alright, there aren't any here." which POF are you using? Plenty of Fascists? 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MCU Posted February 6, 2016 Share Posted February 6, 2016 No wonder if you met on POF. That site is basically chlamydia. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Davkaus Posted February 6, 2016 Share Posted February 6, 2016 Are there better ones? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xela Posted February 7, 2016 Share Posted February 7, 2016 Match? eharmony? Basically the free ones are more likely to be filled with time stealers and attention seekers. That's not to say there aren't genuine people on the free sites, there obviously is, but you need to sort through the chaff more often than not Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Davkaus Posted February 7, 2016 Share Posted February 7, 2016 36 minutes ago, Xela said: you need to sort through the chaff Chance would be a fine thing. I'll report back on how many racists I find on eharmony. I didn't have much luck on Match. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Demitri_C Posted February 8, 2016 Share Posted February 8, 2016 What you mofos got planned with your women for valentines weekend? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
islingtonclaret Posted February 8, 2016 Share Posted February 8, 2016 On 06/02/2016 at 14:59, Davkaus said: Maybe my POF profile photo shouldn't have me stood in front of a Panzer, with a toothbrush moustache. In my defence, there have only been two racists, one woman that turned up outside my house after one date, and the one that told me about a dream involving child molestation. That's only 4 terrible dates, I don't post about the good ones! I tried to give her the benefit of the doubt and give her a way to back out of it and said something like "I don't think you're supposed to call them that anymore" (Yeah, I know), to which she replied "It's alright, there aren't any here." Ah, my mistake, I was getting you mixed up with the "Nazi dinner" girl. But I think I've heard you mention the child molestation one before. That was a keeper, shouldn't have let her go there mate. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rodders Posted February 8, 2016 Share Posted February 8, 2016 (edited) I don't normally bother with valentines, but the other half wants to do something as she's never really been with someone at this time before, but she's not high maintenance so a brunch filled with pancakes, syrup, scrambled egg and bacon at the nice local cafe will do! ( such a simple set of foods but they do it so damned deliciously and we both love it) then go see a film afterwards. Although I suspect my wishes to see either Room or Spotlight may be vetoed due to distinct lack of appropriate spirit. Edited February 8, 2016 by Rodders 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wainy316 Posted February 8, 2016 Share Posted February 8, 2016 I'm in Germany but I sure hope the rest of you are at least making them wait until after Villa v Liverpool has finished. Invite them along if they really want to spend the day with you. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Demitri_C Posted February 8, 2016 Share Posted February 8, 2016 2 hours ago, Wainy316 said: I'm in Germany but I sure hope the rest of you are at least making them wait until after Villa v Liverpool has finished. Invite them along if they really want to spend the day with you. My plan is do Valentines on the 13th so I dont have that problem mate ! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stevo985 Posted February 8, 2016 VT Supporter Share Posted February 8, 2016 Steak and a blowjob Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Demitri_C Posted February 8, 2016 Share Posted February 8, 2016 41 minutes ago, Stevo985 said: Steak and a blowjob Ah so thats how she garnishes your steak 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xela Posted February 8, 2016 Share Posted February 8, 2016 Valentines Day - what a swiz! Everything becomes more expensive for just one arbitrary day. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dr_Pangloss Posted February 8, 2016 Share Posted February 8, 2016 9 minutes ago, Xela said: Valentines Day - what a swiz! Everything becomes more expensive for just one arbitrary day. I don't bother personally, it's a load of bollocks. You have to be a chump to fall for it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post chrisp65 Posted February 8, 2016 Popular Post Share Posted February 8, 2016 I made the card last year. Just a silly bit of fun, but it meant I could include my fave verse, the old classic: Roses are red, violets are blue, this is my knife, get in the van. It doesn't take much to personalise it, and it's the only card my mum gets. 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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