Popular Post Rugeley Villa Posted December 24, 2017 Popular Post Share Posted December 24, 2017 Because I hold you lot so close to my heart, well some of you I'll let you into a secret. Been thinking about proposing to my wife again, so we can renew our vows, as I completely ruined the last wedding day. Going to do it tonight when the kids are in bed and we are all settled. I'm going to give her my xmas card to her and I've already re drafted the lyrics to black sabbath's "Changes" to write on the card to suit the occasion. The song holds sentimental value as it always was my song to my gran, god bless her soul. After she's read the card, I'm going to get down on one knee again. I think with all the positive changes that are happening and to end the guilt of past lives it's the right time to do it. I know she needs it too, to move on from that awful day. 8 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PompeyVillan Posted December 24, 2017 Share Posted December 24, 2017 On 17/12/2017 at 12:27, Xela said: I love a story with a happy ending. That's my POTY right there. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brommy Posted December 24, 2017 Share Posted December 24, 2017 24 minutes ago, Rugeley Villa said: Because I hold you lot so close to my heart, well some of you I'll let you into a secret. Been thinking about proposing to my wife again, so we can renew our vows, as I completely ruined the last wedding day. Going to do it tonight when the kids are in bed and we are all settled. I'm going to give her my xmas card to her and I've already re drafted the lyrics to black sabbath's "Changes" to write on the card to suit the occasion. The song holds sentimental value as it always was my song to my gran, god bless her soul. After she's read the card, I'm going to get down on one knee again. I think with all the positive changes that are happening and to end the guilt of past lives it's the right time to do it. I know she needs it too, to move on from that awful day. I'm pleased for you but can't help wondering how certain are you that: she will say yes organising the day won't cause enough arguments to negate the point of renewing vows neither of you won't mess the day up again? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xela Posted December 24, 2017 Share Posted December 24, 2017 1 hour ago, Rugeley Villa said: Because I hold you lot so close to my heart, well some of you I'll let you into a secret. Been thinking about proposing to my wife again, so we can renew our vows, as I completely ruined the last wedding day. Going to do it tonight when the kids are in bed and we are all settled. I'm going to give her my xmas card to her and I've already re drafted the lyrics to black sabbath's "Changes" to write on the card to suit the occasion. The song holds sentimental value as it always was my song to my gran, god bless her soul. After she's read the card, I'm going to get down on one knee again. I think with all the positive changes that are happening and to end the guilt of past lives it's the right time to do it. I know she needs it too, to move on from that awful day. Just make sure she hasn't had 3 bottles of wine first 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugeley Villa Posted December 24, 2017 Share Posted December 24, 2017 (edited) 2 hours ago, brommy said: I'm pleased for you but can't help wondering how certain are you that: she will say yes organising the day won't cause enough arguments to negate the point of renewing vows neither of you won't mess the day up again? Who would say no to a chap like me it will be a simple renewal, so won't need much planning and will probably be done on a weekend away somewhere, or even on an holiday. Regarding your last point, well I don't know, but it's a what if and life is full of those. It's important to her and I need to repair what I did that day. Edited December 24, 2017 by Rugeley Villa 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ingram85 Posted December 24, 2017 Share Posted December 24, 2017 1 hour ago, Rugeley Villa said: Who would say no to a chap like me it will be a simple renewal, so won't need much planning and will probably be done on a weekend away somewhere, or even on an holiday. Regarding your last point, well I don't know, but it's a what if and life is full of those. It's important to her and I need to repair what I did that day. Good luck chap. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Demitri_C Posted December 24, 2017 Share Posted December 24, 2017 7 hours ago, Rugeley Villa said: Because I hold you lot so close to my heart, well some of you I'll let you into a secret. Been thinking about proposing to my wife again, so we can renew our vows, as I completely ruined the last wedding day. Going to do it tonight when the kids are in bed and we are all settled. I'm going to give her my xmas card to her and I've already re drafted the lyrics to black sabbath's "Changes" to write on the card to suit the occasion. The song holds sentimental value as it always was my song to my gran, god bless her soul. After she's read the card, I'm going to get down on one knee again. I think with all the positive changes that are happening and to end the guilt of past lives it's the right time to do it. I know she needs it too, to move on from that awful day. Good idea mate good luck and let us know how it goes Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
theboyangel Posted December 24, 2017 Share Posted December 24, 2017 4 hours ago, Rugeley Villa said: Regarding your last point, well I don't know, but it's a what if and life is full of those. It's important to her and I need to repair what I did that day. I suggest you forget to pack the hair straighteners then seriously good luck to you, renewing vows is something i’ve never considered and doubt I ever will (but horses for courses!) 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lapal_fan Posted December 24, 2017 Share Posted December 24, 2017 (edited) A lovely gesture @Rugeley Villa. She'll really love that. Just don't fart as you bend onto one knee. Edited December 24, 2017 by lapal_fan 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugeley Villa Posted December 24, 2017 Share Posted December 24, 2017 1 hour ago, theboyangel said: I suggest you forget to pack the hair straighteners then seriously good luck to you, renewing vows is something i’ve never considered and doubt I ever will (but horses for courses!) It's not something I'd ever think about doing normally. Once you're married, you're married. I royally **** up that night though, and I really did ruin her big day. It's just about making things right again. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mikeyp102 Posted December 24, 2017 Share Posted December 24, 2017 1 hour ago, Rugeley Villa said: It's not something I'd ever think about doing normally. Once you're married, you're married. I royally **** up that night though, and I really did ruin her big day. It's just about making things right again. Best of luck Ruge. Lock away the booze, drugs, straighteners and Henry beforehand 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Rugeley Villa Posted December 24, 2017 Popular Post Share Posted December 24, 2017 (edited) She read the card, then I pulled the mistletoe out, held it above us whilst we kissed, and asked her, if she would do the honour of marrying me again. She cried and said yes Edited December 24, 2017 by Rugeley Villa 24 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xela Posted December 24, 2017 Share Posted December 24, 2017 3 minutes ago, Rugeley Villa said: She read the card, then I pulled the mistletoe out, held it above us whilst we kissed, and asked her, if she would do the honour of marrying me again. She cried and said yes Congrats pal! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ingram85 Posted December 24, 2017 Share Posted December 24, 2017 GHEY!!!!!! You gonna get the ghd’s out and celebrate?! Congrats chap! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugeley Villa Posted December 24, 2017 Share Posted December 24, 2017 6 minutes ago, Ingram85 said: GHEY!!!!!! You gonna get the ghd’s out and celebrate?! Congrats chap! I'm hoping to stick to the good old fashioned fist next time. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NurembergVillan Posted December 24, 2017 Moderator Share Posted December 24, 2017 32 minutes ago, Rugeley Villa said: She read the card, then I pulled the mistletoe out, held it above us whilst we kissed, and asked her, if she would do the honour of marrying me again. She cried and said yes You've got a good heart in there mate. All the best to you and the family. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Brumstopdogs Posted December 24, 2017 Popular Post Share Posted December 24, 2017 Well done Ruge and congratulations. Sounds like you are "straightening" your life out. 2 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mark Albrighton Posted December 24, 2017 VT Supporter Share Posted December 24, 2017 Congratulations @Rugeley Villa, all the best matey. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seat68 Posted December 27, 2017 Share Posted December 27, 2017 Dukey approves. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
theboyangel Posted December 27, 2017 Share Posted December 27, 2017 5 hours ago, Seat68 said: Dukey approves. Keep him away from Rugely Villa 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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