Dom_Wren Posted May 11, 2017 Share Posted May 11, 2017 44 minutes ago, Davkaus said: Well, I thought a romantic few days in venice kickstarted things, but spending 10 hours by her bed in recuss after she had an anaphylactic shock is a relationship first for me, jesus. I thought I was going to meet her parents for the first time at her funeral. bloody hell mate! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BOF Posted May 11, 2017 Moderator Share Posted May 11, 2017 4 minutes ago, Davkaus said: It's only been a couple of months. That's far too early for meeting the parents. And seemingly far too early to have shared enough meals to discover any life-threatening allergies either. This is a **** buddy you're trying to get to the next level isn't it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Davkaus Posted May 11, 2017 Share Posted May 11, 2017 (edited) 4 minutes ago, BOF said: And seemingly far too early to have shared enough meals to discover any life-threatening allergies either. This is a **** buddy you're trying to get to the next level isn't it It was a previously undiagnosed penicillin allergy. She was taking amoxicillin for a chest infection, told me she had a weird rash she needed to get checked out, and she felt a bit dizzy. I said I'd come and get her, and her response was 'no need, just cycled to urgent care', the **** lunatic. While she was in the waiting room, her throat closed up. If she'd left it another 5 minutes she'd be gone, she wouldn't even have been able to call an ambulance. It hasn't sunk in yet. I got there a few minutes after they gave her adrenaline to get her heart going again. Turns out that drug allergies are serious shit. Edited May 11, 2017 by Davkaus Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BOF Posted May 11, 2017 Moderator Share Posted May 11, 2017 5 minutes ago, Davkaus said: It was a previously undiagnosed penicillin allergy. She was taking amoxicillin for a chest infection, told me she had a weird rash she needed to get checked out, and she felt a bit dizzy. I said I'd come and get her, and her response was 'no need, just cycled to urgent care', the **** lunatic. While she was in the waiting room, her throat closed up. If she'd left it another 5 minutes she'd be gone. It hasn't sunk in yet. Bloody hell that's lucky in one way and unlucky in another. I would have thought a medical professional would test for penicillin allergies before prescribing a penicillin drug, but obviously not (or maybe it was a quack). Don't linger on it though. You know now and it all worked out. No good comes from what ifs. Move on with your new info and get back to enjoying it all ! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stevo985 Posted May 11, 2017 VT Supporter Share Posted May 11, 2017 **** hell that's bad! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lapal_fan Posted May 11, 2017 Share Posted May 11, 2017 I got a bruise on my knee earlier. Really hurts. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mikeyp102 Posted May 11, 2017 Share Posted May 11, 2017 3 hours ago, lapal_fan said: I got a bruise on my knee earlier. Really hurts. Down on your knees servicing someone? (It is the relationship thread after all) 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
choffer Posted May 15, 2017 VT Supporter Share Posted May 15, 2017 Women are bizarre, aren't they? The love of my life dumped me unceremoniously 17 years ago and last night she found my very well hidden Facebook account and sent me a message to say I was "always in her heart" and that she was sorry if she ever hurt me. Bit late now, love! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stevo985 Posted May 15, 2017 VT Supporter Share Posted May 15, 2017 11 minutes ago, choffer said: Women are bizarre, aren't they? The love of my life dumped me unceremoniously 17 years ago and last night she found my very well hidden Facebook account and sent me a message to say I was "always in her heart" and that she was sorry if she ever hurt me. Bit late now, love! An ex of mine did similar to me fairly recently. It wasn't as serious a relationship as yours, but she dumped me for some pensioner who she went and married and had two kids with. Then, shockingly, divorced (turns out a 30 year age gap meant they didn't have that much in common). She messaged me about 2 months ago doing similar. Firstly being angry at me for not keeping in touch! Then saying she'd made the wrong decision and should never have broken up with me. I was way more polite than I should have been. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ingram85 Posted May 15, 2017 Share Posted May 15, 2017 Yeah you are definitely better people than me. My reply message would have been "go **** yourself and then die in a hole". I've accepted the person that I am 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
choffer Posted May 15, 2017 VT Supporter Share Posted May 15, 2017 7 minutes ago, Stevo985 said: An ex of mine did similar to me fairly recently. It wasn't as serious a relationship as yours, but she dumped me for some pensioner who she went and married and had two kids with. Then, shockingly, divorced (turns out a 30 year age gap meant they didn't have that much in common). She messaged me about 2 months ago doing similar. Firstly being angry at me for not keeping in touch! Then saying she'd made the wrong decision and should never have broken up with me. I was way more polite than I should have been. Yeah, I know through mutual friends that she was married within a couple of years and it turns out she has 3 kids now. I'd always suspected that she met someone else before she dumped me but we were living 800 miles apart so these things happen. I bear her no ill will though. I have very happy memories of our time together and if I can't get over something like that in nearly 20 years..... It did make me wonder why she got in touch after all these years though. My Facebook must have been fairly tough to track down as the security settings on it are pretty locked-down. I'm kinda glad she did though - I guess if for nothing else than for her to acknowledge that she was in the wrong and was sorry. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stevo985 Posted May 15, 2017 VT Supporter Share Posted May 15, 2017 (edited) 34 minutes ago, choffer said: Yeah, I know through mutual friends that she was married within a couple of years and it turns out she has 3 kids now. I'd always suspected that she met someone else before she dumped me but we were living 800 miles apart so these things happen. I bear her no ill will though. I have very happy memories of our time together and if I can't get over something like that in nearly 20 years..... It did make me wonder why she got in touch after all these years though. My Facebook must have been fairly tough to track down as the security settings on it are pretty locked-down. I'm kinda glad she did though - I guess if for nothing else than for her to acknowledge that she was in the wrong and was sorry. Yeah I don't wish ill on this girl either. What annoyed me about the whole thing was she was angry at me for not keeping in touch. She dumped me then got married and had two kids and I'm the one who should have kept in touch?!?! Edited May 15, 2017 by Stevo985 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BOF Posted May 15, 2017 Moderator Share Posted May 15, 2017 23 minutes ago, Stevo985 said: Firstly being angry at me for not keeping in touch! Then saying she'd made the wrong decision and should never have broken up with me. That's the fairly severe end of mentalist. You dodged one there. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stevo985 Posted May 15, 2017 VT Supporter Share Posted May 15, 2017 Yeah. It's one of those where at the time I was gutted, but looking back I have no idea what I saw in her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Demitri_C Posted May 15, 2017 Share Posted May 15, 2017 You both dodged bullets in my eyes 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
choffer Posted May 15, 2017 VT Supporter Share Posted May 15, 2017 6 minutes ago, Stevo985 said: Yeah. It's one of those where at the time I was gutted, but looking back I have no idea what I saw in her. Yep - I had one of them last year. There's none so blind as those who will not see. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stevo985 Posted May 15, 2017 VT Supporter Share Posted May 15, 2017 Yep. Don't get me wrong, she's a good looking girl and we had fun. But I was proper torn up after that one, more than most, and I have no idea why. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stevo985 Posted May 15, 2017 VT Supporter Share Posted May 15, 2017 In other relationship news, I'm currently like Diego Costa in a January transfer window. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Demitri_C Posted May 15, 2017 Share Posted May 15, 2017 1 minute ago, Stevo985 said: In other relationship news, I'm currently like Diego Costa in a January transfer window. i thought you was in a long term relationship?! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stevo985 Posted May 15, 2017 VT Supporter Share Posted May 15, 2017 1 minute ago, Demitri_C said: i thought you was in a long term relationship?! Yeah I am... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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