Shillzz Posted November 8, 2011 Share Posted November 8, 2011 Haha, quite that Casanova. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AVFCLaura Posted November 8, 2011 Share Posted November 8, 2011 irreverentad, I get the feeling it bodes well for you that speed impresses me? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
irreverentad Posted November 8, 2011 Share Posted November 8, 2011 irreverentad, I get the feeling it bodes well for you that seed impresses me? Fixed for you! ;-) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AVFCLaura Posted November 8, 2011 Share Posted November 8, 2011 irreverentad, I get the feeling it bodes well for you that sleaze impresses me? Fixed for you! ;-) Fixed for you... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
irreverentad Posted November 8, 2011 Share Posted November 8, 2011 irreverentad, I get the feeling it bodes well for you that sleaze impresses me? Fixed for you! ;-) Fixed for you... Haha very good. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nigel Posted November 8, 2011 VT Supporter Share Posted November 8, 2011 1. Don't send out generic 'copy & paste' messages to girls - ALWAYS relate to something in their profile. Girls can smell those messages a mile off and they won't reply. Make your message feel personal. Yeah I do that. Just struggle to put an 'eye catching subject title' really. I suppose that's what really gets them to open the mail in the first place. Cock monster looking for new home? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dante_Lockhart Posted November 8, 2011 Author Share Posted November 8, 2011 I'll have you know that I am methodical in my ways :winkold: I'll be honest. I'm shy and lack self confidence. I never initiate conversations with girls when out so chatting people up in bars is something I've done once, and that was because my mate was talking to another girl in her group. Maybe this transfers to my messages I send out unknowing to me? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eames Posted November 8, 2011 Share Posted November 8, 2011 irreverentad, I get the feeling it bodes well for you that sleaze impresses me? Fixed for you! ;-) Fixed for you... Haha very good. Get a room. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
irreverentad Posted November 8, 2011 Share Posted November 8, 2011 There you go Dante... Laura and I have demonstrated perfectly how POF works on Villa Talk.... Sleazy, Sex obsessed man flirts with needy attention seeking female (joke). They go out on a date. Her mates think the guy is a bit weird so she finishes with him and stops him from going within 100 yards of her with a restraining order. She moves onto the next sleazy, sex obsessed man....and the cycle repeats ;-) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AVFCLaura Posted November 8, 2011 Share Posted November 8, 2011 I'll have you know that I am methodical in my ways :winkold: I'll be honest. I'm shy and lack self confidence. I never initiate conversations with girls when out so chatting people up in bars is something I've done once, and that was because my mate was talking to another girl in her group. Maybe this transfers to my messages I send out unknowing to me? Maybe... Confidence is sexy. But arrogance is not. I think it's important to be yourself more than anything. So if you're a little shy, be a little shy. It's about finding someone who likes you for you. I've always preferred the shy, mysterious, smart guy at the back of a room compared to the in your face, chatting to all the girls, overly confident guy. I've definitely dated both types and I know which one I'd rather settle down with. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mjmooney Posted November 8, 2011 VT Supporter Share Posted November 8, 2011 6. Know that girls will subtract three inches from your height, double your weight, halve your income and add at least 2 years to your age.6a. And know that if you marry them, girls will double your weight, more than halve your income and add 100 years to your age. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dante_Lockhart Posted November 8, 2011 Author Share Posted November 8, 2011 I'll have you know that I am methodical in my ways :winkold: I'll be honest. I'm shy and lack self confidence. I never initiate conversations with girls when out so chatting people up in bars is something I've done once, and that was because my mate was talking to another girl in her group. Maybe this transfers to my messages I send out unknowing to me? Maybe... Confidence is sexy. But arrogance is not. I think it's important to be yourself more than anything. So if you're a little shy, be a little shy. It's about finding someone who likes you for you. I've always preferred the shy, mysterious, smart guy at the back of a room compared to the in your face, chatting to all the girls, overly confident guy. I've definitely dated both types and I know which one I'd rather settle down with. Always good to get a ladies perspective. Helped a lot. Cheers Laura. Seriously though, I shouldn't use that pic I posted? >_> Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eames Posted November 8, 2011 Share Posted November 8, 2011 6. Know that girls will subtract three inches from your height, double your weight, halve your income and add at least 2 years to your age.6a. And know that if you marry them, girls will double your weight, more than halve your income and add 100 years to your age. 6b... upon marriage the girl will almost certainly double in weight Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
irreverentad Posted November 8, 2011 Share Posted November 8, 2011 I'll have you know that I am methodical in my ways :winkold: I'll be honest. I'm shy and lack self confidence. I never initiate conversations with girls when out so chatting people up in bars is something I've done once, and that was because my mate was talking to another girl in her group. Maybe this transfers to my messages I send out unknowing to me? Maybe... Confidence is sexy. But arrogance is not. I think it's important to be yourself more than anything. So if you're a little shy, be a little shy. It's about finding someone who likes you for you. I've always preferred the shy, mysterious, smart guy at the back of a room compared to the in your face, chatting to all the girls, overly confident guy. I've definitely dated both types and I know which one I'd rather settle down with. Always good to get a ladies perspective. Helped a lot. Cheers Laura. Seriously though, I shouldn't use that pic I posted? >_> A girl I spoke to before I went on said that you should post 2 pics. One 'normal' shot and one of you with some friends during an activity be it socialising or whatever. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zak Posted November 8, 2011 Share Posted November 8, 2011 POF? I konw of an easier way to get laid!!!! whats your ex up to these days? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AVFCLaura Posted November 8, 2011 Share Posted November 8, 2011 Always good to get a ladies perspective. Helped a lot. Cheers Laura. Seriously though, I shouldn't use that pic I posted? >_> I meant specifically the batman claw picture or any other of that kind. I'm sure the pictures you choose will be fine. I think guys tend to assume girls are as shallow as they are, but girls who are looking for more than a brief encounter are a lot less about looks than you probably think. And I'm not saying you are shallow, just relatively this is the case. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
irreverentad Posted November 8, 2011 Share Posted November 8, 2011 Will you be doing a POF diary for us Dante? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
irreverentad Posted November 8, 2011 Share Posted November 8, 2011 Always good to get a ladies perspective. Helped a lot. Cheers Laura. Seriously though, I shouldn't use that pic I posted? >_> I meant specifically the batman claw picture or any other of that kind. I'm sure the pictures you choose will be fine. I think guys tend to assume girls are as shallow as they are, but girls who are looking for more than a brief encounter are a lot less about looks than you probably think. And I'm not saying you are shallow, just relatively this is the case. Laura, on a serious note, do you not think the 'claw' picture at least shows he is fun, outgoing and has personality? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mjmooney Posted November 8, 2011 VT Supporter Share Posted November 8, 2011 I think guys tend to assume girls are as shallow as they are, but girls who are looking for more than a brief encounter are a lot less about looks than you probably think. Some girls ARE shallow and looking for a brief encounter. Depends whether they are the sort he wants to meet. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dante_Lockhart Posted November 8, 2011 Author Share Posted November 8, 2011 POF? I konw of an easier way to get laid!!!! whats your ex up to these days? Hush you, I'm going strong with that bet! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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