Rugeley Villa Posted July 8, 2017 Share Posted July 8, 2017 18 minutes ago, djdabush said: Wife is into second day of hospital as she is being induced. Man, this part is dull. Who would have thought there would be so much waiting? Suppose I should appreciate having nothing to do while I still can. I hate the last few weeks of pregnancy and also the induced part. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post djdabush Posted July 11, 2017 Popular Post Share Posted July 11, 2017 (Not so) Little Louis was born this morning weighing 9lbs 4oz after a fairly horrendous 21 hour induced labour. Very proud and emotional day. 9 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugeley Villa Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 4 hours ago, djdabush said: (Not so) Little Louis was born this morning weighing 9lbs 4oz after a fairly horrendous 21 hour induced labour. Very proud and emotional day. Go home get some rest then enjoy the start of your new life tomorrow once you get back to the hospital. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rds1983 Posted July 21, 2017 VT Supporter Share Posted July 21, 2017 Wife is full term (whatever that means) and it's only a few weeks until the due date. Any last minute advice? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugeley Villa Posted July 21, 2017 Share Posted July 21, 2017 20 minutes ago, Rds1983 said: Wife is full term (whatever that means) and it's only a few weeks until the due date. Any last minute advice? It's not too late to leave her and runaway. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugeley Villa Posted September 5, 2017 Share Posted September 5, 2017 We go again....... We have decided to keep the baby. In her eyes and to a degree in my eyes too she is too far gone, so we have spoke about it and decided to do the right thing for us as a couple and that is to keep the baby. It's not ideal, but we will survive. Baby number 4 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lapal_fan Posted September 5, 2017 Share Posted September 5, 2017 12 minutes ago, Rugeley Villa said: We go again....... We have decided to keep the baby. In her eyes and to a degree in my eyes too she is too far gone, so we have spoke about it and decided to do the right thing for us as a couple and that is to keep the baby. It's not ideal, but we will survive. Baby number 4 That's cool. Now can you PLEASE just get the **** snip? Jesus Christ man. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StefanAVFC Posted September 5, 2017 Share Posted September 5, 2017 Absolutely mental. You've made the same posts each time and each time the same thing happens. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugeley Villa Posted September 5, 2017 Share Posted September 5, 2017 5 minutes ago, lapal_fan said: That's cool. Now can you PLEASE just get the **** snip? Jesus Christ man. Definitely Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugeley Villa Posted September 5, 2017 Share Posted September 5, 2017 Just now, StefanAVFC said: Absolutely mental. You've made the same posts each time and each time the same thing happens. That's the story of my life. Keep repeating the same mistakes. We just can't go through with abortion at this stage of pregnancy. Either way it's not the end of the world and he or she will be loved madly like the others are. Not ideal but it's one of them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xela Posted September 5, 2017 Share Posted September 5, 2017 Bloody hell @Rugeley Villa! Congrats! You have babies faster than I upgrade my mobile phone. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugeley Villa Posted September 5, 2017 Share Posted September 5, 2017 1 hour ago, Xela said: Bloody hell @Rugeley Villa! Congrats! You have babies faster than I upgrade my mobile phone. My man milk is like superglue. Once it connects to the target you've had it. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugeley Villa Posted September 5, 2017 Share Posted September 5, 2017 The wife is really happy, so can't complain. I'm not going to pretend I'm not a tad happy either. We must be mental . 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mark Albrighton Posted September 5, 2017 VT Supporter Share Posted September 5, 2017 Great news mate, really pleased for both of you. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Genie Posted September 5, 2017 Share Posted September 5, 2017 Well done Ruge, congrats. Let me know if you want any advice about the snip :-) 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TrentVilla Posted September 5, 2017 Moderator Share Posted September 5, 2017 1 hour ago, Rugeley Villa said: The wife is really happy, so can't complain. I'm not going to pretend I'm not a tad happy either. We must be mental . Blimey. That escalated quickly from where you were not so long ago. Congrats. Maybe stick to the hairstraightners from now on aye... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugeley Villa Posted September 5, 2017 Share Posted September 5, 2017 4 minutes ago, TrentVilla said: Blimey. That escalated quickly from where you were not so long ago. Congrats. Maybe stick to the hairstraightners from now on aye... I like to keep people guessing what we are going to do next It's never a straight road with us. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugeley Villa Posted September 10, 2017 Share Posted September 10, 2017 My wife broke down the other night and said she don't think she can handle having another baby. Had a good talk about various things and we are now having an abortion. Feel guilty and a bit ashamed, but it's for the best. I thought she was happy about it once we decided to keep it, but it was her emotions playing with her mind and reality soon played up. No shame in abortions, but it's our irresponsible behaviour that's shameful. We are both getting ourselves snipped and sterilised, so this doesn't happen again. Must admit I was a bit happy about the baby, but it's honestly for the best in our situation. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mark Albrighton Posted September 10, 2017 VT Supporter Share Posted September 10, 2017 1 hour ago, Rugeley Villa said: My wife broke down the other night and said she don't think she can handle having another baby. Had a good talk about various things and we are now having an abortion. Feel guilty and a bit ashamed, but it's for the best. I thought she was happy about it once we decided to keep it, but it was her emotions playing with her mind and reality soon played up. No shame in abortions, but it's our irresponsible behaviour that's shameful. We are both getting ourselves snipped and sterilised, so this doesn't happen again. Must admit I was a bit happy about the baby, but it's honestly for the best in our situation. That's the most important thing mate, don't beat yourselves up about it. It's a difficult situation to be in but it sounds like you're both on the same page and you've thought it through. Best wishes to you both. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugeley Villa Posted September 10, 2017 Share Posted September 10, 2017 Just now, Shropshire Lad said: That's the most important thing mate, don't beat yourselves up about it. It's a difficult situation to be in but it sounds like you're both on the same page and you've thought it through. Best wishes to you both. What made it worse for me was that for a few days we were keeping it, and now we ain't again. Feels like we are playing about with a life. It is for best though I know that. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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