I wasn't 'making a point'. I was asking a question (well two, actually).
Yes.
So the fact she was out having Chemo which gave the bastards the opportunity makes it bad. The fact she and her family are trying to deal with a life threatening illness at this time of year and how it will affect them and instead of showing a bit of empathy you decide to try and pose a question which however valid you may feel it was, probably wasnt the best place or time to do it.
The fact you cannot see this means there is zero point in trying to discuss this with you really so like others I shall refrain from posting further.