It's quite uplifting to hear from people who have that experience lingering somewhere in the background, but haven't let it define them.
Both my parents are alcoholics (he's extremely violent). Home was a head-wreck, I've two younger sisters. I know I've an addictive personality, but gave up smoking 14 years ago and have had 9 bottles of cider since November (and 1 bourbon). I don't want to end up like them. Years ago i remember thinking I could just sit in a pub all day, but decided this wasn't a good course of action.
Then again it means everything is directed inwards, resulting in depression on and off the last twenty-odd years.
Unfortunately I'm attracted to people with addictive personalities. It would be so much simpler if someone would wear a badge: "Hi, my name is ___. I may be funny, charming and a bit cute but please be aware I'm 1) a binge drinker, 2) enjoy taking class As, 3) love Christmas, 4) don't vote and 5) am a narcissist". The red flags would be obvious. I would know when to nope the f*ck right out.