sharkyvilla Posted October 14, 2015 Share Posted October 14, 2015 In all seriousness it sounds like you definitely made the right decision, it would have only got worse, especially if you ever did get round to having kids. Have you paid for a honeymoon? If so I'd still go on my own, sounds like she'd only have hated it anyway. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Demitri_C Posted October 14, 2015 Share Posted October 14, 2015 Yeah we booked to go Jamaica, the thing was there was still abit to pay off on that so I managed to get most of the money back just lost the deposit which wasn't too bad. Yeah she was moaning about it as she was not 100%. I agree would ahve got worse she was a dragon. Oh I forgot to mention that we made an agreement to go halves on our joint account engagement money within a few hours she cleared the joint account and took all the money. I suspected she was after money as well which also was a huge factor for me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Demitri_C Posted October 14, 2015 Share Posted October 14, 2015 Where was the stag? And did you sleep with someone when away?The stag was in Riga and I had the opportunity to sleep with one hot Latvian girl but I didn't (obviously kicking myself now) but I dont do cheating on women when its a serious relationship 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stevo985 Posted October 14, 2015 VT Supporter Share Posted October 14, 2015 I respect you for getting a stag do out of the situation before cutting the cord Seriously though, she sounds like a bitch. But with my serious hat on, I would take some time to really think about it and make sure this was definitely what you wanted. If in a week you still feel relief that you've made the right decision, then chances are you have. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Demitri_C Posted October 14, 2015 Popular Post Share Posted October 14, 2015 I respect you for getting a stag do out of the situation before cutting the cord Seriously though, she sounds like a bitch. But with my serious hat on, I would take some time to really think about it and make sure this was definitely what you wanted. If in a week you still feel relief that you've made the right decision, then chances are you have. Stevo been broken up for four weeks and I can tell you was best decision I made. Am a lot happy now as i no longer have somone putting me down 8 hours a day. I think I proposed for the wrong reasons and I will definitely make sure I do not make this same mistake in future 11 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stevo985 Posted October 14, 2015 VT Supporter Share Posted October 14, 2015 If it's been four weeks and you're still happy that you've made the right decision then, in my opinion, you have.A rush of blood or cold feet might make you make a silly decision that you regret. But if it's been a month and you're still sure then I'd suggest you've done the right thing.Don't settle. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post snowychap Posted October 14, 2015 Popular Post Share Posted October 14, 2015 Yeah we booked to go Jamaica Will she now go of her own accord? 8 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chrisp65 Posted October 14, 2015 Share Posted October 14, 2015 when she comes around the house to give you one last chance....don't forget to get one last shag before you say no thanks but seriously, looks like a no brainer right decision from here 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bunnski Posted October 14, 2015 Share Posted October 14, 2015 Can you Pm me her number please? she sounds decent compared to some of the ones I've run into over the years...[emoji14] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lapal_fan Posted October 14, 2015 Share Posted October 14, 2015 Yeah we booked to go Jamaica Will she now go of her own accord? They don't fly any more, too expensive. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
omariqy Posted October 14, 2015 Share Posted October 14, 2015 Basically it is a long story but i have not been happy in my relationship for a while but I put it down to wedding stress. But when I went on my stag my boys who went with me could see I was not really happy with her but kept it to themselves. Then my cousin who i was sharing with said to me are you sure your happy with this girl Dem? That's when I just finally let it all out how unhappy I was and was not sure if I could marry her.Basically my ex is a control freak. She would try tell me how to dress if she did not like something I wore. She even had the nerve to me every weekend say I cant watch football because she does not like it! One time she actually snatched the control off me and said I ain't watching this shit and turned the channel. Massive row. then there is the witch of a mother in law. the woman trying to tell me why have I not put my exs name on my flat? what the hell has it got to do with her? She telling I MUST wear a cravat at the wedding and not a tie under any circumstances. Again what the hell does it have to do with her? Back to my ex she tried tactics like trapping me by saying lets not use a condom (obviously to try get pregnant) but no chance. I knew what she was after. She also threw a white gold necklace at me for xmas as she did not like it. That really pissed me offI basically knew after the stag I did not want to be with her during the stag as I did not miss her and the thought of her touching me made my skin crawl. thats when I knew. Obviiously when I broke it off she went berserk and got some shitty digs from her turd of a mother That would do it for me. Sounds like a top decision mate. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jon Posted October 14, 2015 Share Posted October 14, 2015 the thought of her touching me made my skin crawl. thats when I knew. Yep, I think that'd do for most people Onwards and upwards Dem mate. I can only guess, given how you've described her, that she must have been incredibly fit .... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wainy316 Posted October 14, 2015 Share Posted October 14, 2015 I respect you for getting a stag do out of the situation before cutting the cord Seriously though, she sounds like a bitch. But with my serious hat on, I would take some time to really think about it and make sure this was definitely what you wanted. If in a week you still feel relief that you've made the right decision, then chances are you have. Stevo been broken up for four weeks and I can tell you was best decision I made. Am a lot happy now as i no longer have somone putting me down 8 hours a day. I think I proposed for the wrong reasons and I will definitely make sure I do not make this same mistake in future I was really hoping you'd done it between the time of your post asking if anyone had done it before and your next post. Still you made the right choice. That necklace and joint account things is not the work of a good person. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
omariqy Posted October 14, 2015 Share Posted October 14, 2015 Do many people cheat on their wife to be on their stag? Get it out of their system etc? I don't get that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stevo985 Posted October 14, 2015 VT Supporter Share Posted October 14, 2015 I've been on a lot of stags over the past 5 or 6 years, and I've never seen it happen.I'm sure it probably does, but I wouldn't say it's popular. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wainy316 Posted October 14, 2015 Share Posted October 14, 2015 Usually just involves looking at bewbs in a strip club or something. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StefanAVFC Posted October 14, 2015 Share Posted October 14, 2015 I went on a stag and the stag got a handjob from some random girl. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stevo985 Posted October 14, 2015 VT Supporter Share Posted October 14, 2015 Lad Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Demitri_C Posted October 14, 2015 Share Posted October 14, 2015 the thought of her touching me made my skin crawl. thats when I knew. Yep, I think that'd do for most people Onwards and upwards Dem mate. I can only guess, given how you've described her, that she must have been incredibly fit .... Thanks Johnny boy She wasnt too bad to be fair but the personality traits outweighed that by 100% Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Demitri_C Posted October 14, 2015 Share Posted October 14, 2015 Do many people cheat on their wife to be on their stag? Get it out of their system etc? I don't get that.Does kissing a girl count as cheating or do you meaning shagging mate? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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